Have you ever wondered why sometimes we feel the need to cut our hair? And especially you boys: why do you think girls change their hairstyle so often?
Well, lucky you! I'm about to blow you mind. Take notes, it will come to hand from time to time.
First of, there is something essential that you have to understand: a haircut isn't just a haircut. Girls don't cut their hair just because they feel like it. They don't do it randomly. There is always a pattern, keep that in mind.
With that said, let's start with our journey.
Well, lucky you! I'm about to blow you mind. Take notes, it will come to hand from time to time.
First of, there is something essential that you have to understand: a haircut isn't just a haircut. Girls don't cut their hair just because they feel like it. They don't do it randomly. There is always a pattern, keep that in mind.
With that said, let's start with our journey.
There are many reasons why someone wants to get a radical cut, but usually it is because they want a change. You broke up with your boyfriend? Trip to the hairdresser! You changed school? Time to dye your hair with a crazy color! Seeing yourself different in the mirror helps you to feel better, confident and beautiful.
Sometimes girls get crazy haircuts because they want to draw attention. Don't get me wrong though, I'm saying that in a positive way. When I get a blowout, I feel like I'm the queen of the world. All eyes must be on me cause I'm shining like a star. I know that you don't have to have others approval to feel fabulous, but sometimes, when you don't feel at your best, it helps. A lot.
Other times, we do it because of our style. In my experience, I sometimes look myself in the mirror and think: this hair doesn't go with my style. Believe it or not, some styles are short-hair-styles and others aren't. I had a phase when I had long long brown hair, I dressed with sweatshirts and sporty clothes, and after a year or so I got tired. I started to wear high waist jeans with some cute shirts, red lipstick (constantly) and after that I dyed my hair ginger and got a bob haircut.
Sometimes girls get crazy haircuts because they want to draw attention. Don't get me wrong though, I'm saying that in a positive way. When I get a blowout, I feel like I'm the queen of the world. All eyes must be on me cause I'm shining like a star. I know that you don't have to have others approval to feel fabulous, but sometimes, when you don't feel at your best, it helps. A lot.
Other times, we do it because of our style. In my experience, I sometimes look myself in the mirror and think: this hair doesn't go with my style. Believe it or not, some styles are short-hair-styles and others aren't. I had a phase when I had long long brown hair, I dressed with sweatshirts and sporty clothes, and after a year or so I got tired. I started to wear high waist jeans with some cute shirts, red lipstick (constantly) and after that I dyed my hair ginger and got a bob haircut.
Yes... maybe we are a tiny bit weird but that's how my people do. Anyways, and this is advice that could save your lives, every time you notice something different in a girl's hair (and please, please, please notice) SAY SOMETHING NICE. Even if it's something radical, like seeing your girlfriend completely bald, keep it positive! There is usually a lot behind it and it's not up to you to judge.
Illustration by Jasmine Abd El Gelil
Illustration by Jasmine Abd El Gelil